Is this guy bad or good?


I met this guy a couple weeks ago in school, he was so nice and we were really good friends. He had a girlfriend and I was friends with her also. Over time I started noticing our relationship changing. One day he said he liked me more than his girlfriend and I said I might like him back if he didn’t have a GF. I got so mad the he was practically cheating on his GF with me. I stopped talking to him. Finally 2 months later he ended his relationship with this girl. We started talking again and now 3 weeks later he is asking me out. I told him “How do I know you won’t cheat on me? I mean you had no problem liking other girls while in your relationship” He announced in front of all my friends his so called ‘love’ for me. I told him I would go out with him but that doesn’t mean we are dating and will in the future. Now it is winter break, I don’t even have plans with him but I can’t stop thinking about him. All my friends hate him and say he is bad news. How can a guy be bad if he is that nice… Idk what to do… HELP!!!

Category: asked February 20, 2015

3 Answers

Anyone who's willing to cheat with you is willing to cheat on you. This guy has no idea what love is and he's using that word to get to you. I know he might seem nice but he seems like the kind of guy that's going to hurt you. If all your friends came to the same conclusion about this guy, they might not be wrong.
Dont be fooled by sugar coated people. He's like an inside-out sour patch kid. He's being sweet to you right now but you'll eventually get to his sour center. It's good that youre aware of the possibility that if he could cheat on his ex, he could also cheat on you. Who a person is on the inside doesnt change over night and your friends are trying to warn you of this. Honest guys approach girls in honest ways, not behind their girlfriend's back. So I say stick with your friends and your gut feeling, because they have your best interest at heart.
It's always best to trust your gut feeling. If you feel like he's bad news, then you're best off to walk away now before you get hurt. But like Taylor said, if he'll cheat with you he'll cheat on you. Hope it works out for you