Is this a weird thing to do?


There’s this girl I’m really into, but I get rather anxious at being in the same vicinity as her. We’ve talked a few times before, I feel like I know more about her than she knows about me because it’s difficult for me to start talking about myself when I want to get to know someone. So, to overcome the anxious feeling, I want to just go up to her and give her a compliment out of the blue. But I don’t want to seem like a creep, that’s the thing I’m trying to avoid all together with her. So, I want to know if she’d think I was weird if I just came up to her and said, “Hey, I just wanted to say you’re really cute.”.

asked October 25, 2014

2 Answers

I get anxious when I talk to people sometimes, too. Even sometimes when I want to say cute, loving, meaningful things to my partner of almost 5 years. 5 years and I still sit there for 20 minutes opening and closing my mouth debating on if I should say words. That said, it is the age of technology! Get her email or her phone number, and write and text away. Play a sort of question game, and KEEP IT CLEAN. Nothing is worse than a guy wanting to play the question game and asking "Whats ur bra size". But ask questions to her, and she can ask about you.
I know from experience of being a girl, that we love hearing compliments. It doesn't really matter if she knows you or not, but she will appreciate the compliment. She won't think you're a creep, promise. Plus, girls love confidence in a guy too so, thats good. I say go for it.