Is okay when my foster carer is opevn about alcohol
I was at a big house party last night and I didn’t want to go because I wanted to watch anime and then read for a bit but my foster carer encourage to go to the party and said that I can I drink alcohol if I want but the border stop with drugs I’m not sure how I should see it
I'm assuming when you say "foster carer," you mean foster parent? Either way, I don't think it's very responsible of him/her to encourage you to drink alcohol. Did they force you to go or just encourage you? As long as they're not pressuring you to extremes or forcing you to drink alcohol I think you're in the clear. Personally, I feel that you shouldn't drink alcohol/do drugs as it tends to screw up your brain. Especially at your age (15-16 according to your profile) when your brain is most vulnerable to it.
Well he just encouraged even though he knew alcohol would be involved I didn't drink any and I didn't drink because I know that isn't good at my age and at my because of my situation at the moments who knows what would of happened anyway i think he knows if I did drink that he can't change The fact that I did but he definitely no bad person but I am still not sure how I should see it