Is okay for a guy to wear panties?

I don't really see any problem with it. I don't know if I like calling it a "secret" though. I think it's respectful of you to not do it around your wife since she doesn't like it. But I don't like keeping secrets because it can make you feel distant from someone or lead to more secrets. Example: I don't like watching porn with my boyfriend. I'm not sure why, but it makes me upset. In the past, I was fine watching it with guys, but not with him. He knows this and so we don't watch porn together. But he still watches it on his own and I know it. It would bother me if he considered watching it something he had to keep a secret from me. Now there is the chance that your wife will still not be happy about you wearing panties in private. But that is something you should talk about and help her understand that it isn't hurting anyone and maybe she has little things that you aren't crazy about that aren't hurting anyone either. Sorry for the long post! I think you wearing panties is fine, but keeping it a secret could be a problem.

No problem with that. I don't see why it would be an issue as long as you're not harming anyone. I don't think its totally healthy to keep secrets from your partner, but if she's not accepting and you've discussed it with her, do whatever you want in your own time with your own tush

If you like it then wear it . No body can tell you what to wear . If you feel comfortable and confident then why not wear them ? Just because somebody dosent like it dosent mea you have to dont like it either.

There is nothing wrong with it at all. It isn't hurting anyone and it makes you happy, so just go for it :)Lots of love xx

Well, I saw an episode of Friends where Pheobe told Joey that for her boyfriend, wearing womens' underwear kind of makes a man feel more like a man. But I don't really recommend it for reproductive health. You shouldn't really abandon this practice if you like to do that, but I do recommend you wear sparingly.