Is my boyfriend abusive?

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My relationship with him is 90% online with him. He gets randomly moody all the time, he’s overly jelous and protective like if i go to the shop without telling him I’ve been outside he’ll be funny with me all day. He also makes me feel bad about things like him I do something like play a game when he wants to spend time together, we have disagreements and it’s not a argument that lasts a hour or less they last hours on end, it’s not rare that they’ll last days and he’s verbally abusive throughout all this time. He isn’t bad when we meet but I think that’s just because we’re too happy to have met for him to be bad. Idk I would just like soem advice on this. Thank you.

Category: Tags: asked July 17, 2014

6 Answers

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Read this the other day, seems related:
http://pervocracy.tumblr.com/post/91863125789/ive-gotten-a-lot-of-questions-like-my-partner
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Yes. He's abusive. It sounds like you cannot be yourself, and when you cannot be yourself, you do not feel whole. I bet you get the feeling that you're walking on eggshells when he's not around? That can't be healthy. There are people who will make you feel comfortable and support you in anything that you do.
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There are men out there that will treat you better than this. I think I would look for someone else. If it's this hard and you're not even married, it's not going to get easier.
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thats not physical abuse but it can count as emotional abuse. if he treats you like youre his property or his dog...then i dont think thats a good nor healthy relationship. if he verbally abuses you then yes thats abuse. i suggest breaking up. there are guys who can make you happy all the time, not just when youre in person.
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"he’s verbally abusive throughout all this time" you said your self even yes that is out of context but it doesn't change the implications or meaning second if you cant technically call that abuse in your mind I also know people who have gone to court over stuff like this so yeah if it is it is very very close.