Is it wrong to have a crush on someone while in a relationship?
I’ve come to realize that I have a school girl crush on my boyfriend’s friend and I feel really guilty about it. I absolutely love my bf and I would never betray him, but I feel a lot of… lust with this other guy. I don’t let my feelings show, but the more I keep them a secret, well… you know. I don’t know what to do to make these feelings go away?!
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having crushes while in a committed relationship. You are taken, not dead; your libido doesn't magically switch off just because the role of "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" is filled.
Everyone has little crushes while they are in relationships. I myself have minis all the time. But I still love my boyfriend none the less. Its just human nature to find a hot guy hot or a nice guy nice. Like you said, its a high school crush and they always happen. Its actually healthy. Everyone has a secret crush. You shouldnt feel guilty about anything unless you actually act on these impulses. :)