Is it normal for me to feel like this?

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My dad and my three brothers went on a month long trip across Canada. About two weeks ago, my dad got angry with my mom over the phone about how she made a comment about his aunt. Now, my dad is always making comments about my mom’s dad and he never apologises about it. But, even though she messaged him a real apology, he was pissed off. He started going on about how she doesn’t love him enough and he put his phone on speaker so my brothers could hear it. He didn’t want mom to put her phone on speaker for us though. And any ways, she was in her room for two hours fighting with dad over the phone and by the time they were done, she felt like divorcing. But I actually didn’t mind the thought of it.

He came home a couple days ago and he got my sister and I in trouble for something my mom did. We had to work our asses off and then he told us that he HAD to do it. I am still pretty pissed off at him and he started another fight with my mom. It seems like they never stop fighting…

Is is normal for me to actually want them to divorce??

Category: Tags: asked August 28, 2014

3 Answers

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Its completely normal. The fighting gets really annoying and then you start to wonder how nice and happier things would be if they just split up. I know I've personally had those thoughts so don't worry about it. Some people just don't belong together and have to move on in order to be happy.
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sure it is normal, YOu can tell when things arnt going well. but what i wonder is why? why did he think he had to do it? any of it?
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It is normal. I was only a year old when my parents divorced but looking at them no w and the way they treat each other im glade they moved on. Some people just cant fix things. Both party's have to be willing to work on the relationship for things to get better and it dosent sound like your father wants to fix things. It is normal for you to have these feelings. I promise.