Is it my turn to reach out??

I’ve been seeing this guy on and off through out this year. The two times before I cut it off because I was going through some emotional issues. Both those times he told me how much he cared about me, even a few times said he loved me, and wanted a relationship. We’ve reconnected for the third time, but this time I’ve been feeling a deeper connection with him than ever before. Our sex outstanding, and he’s always been there for me emotionally. I told him I loved him and he tells me he’s not ready and wants to work on himself. I can’t help but be confused since I thought this was what he had wanted. Now he’s completely shut me out, and Im not ready for him to leave my life so suddenly. He’s reached out to me in the past, is it now my turn? Should I let him come to me again? Or should I just drop it and move on?

Feeling Lost

Category: Dating & Relationships Tags: dating asked March 2, 2014

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twimble1

2 Answers

You should move on already because its not worth it anymore. Based on what you were saying, it is quite obvious that he does not want your relationship anymore. And you tried everything you could. But if you want, give a last punch. Open up to him and tell him what you feel about your relationship and what you feel about on what he is doing to you. That way, both of you can settle your relationship. Or maybe meet up with him? And tell him what is really going on. I hope this helps and I hope that whatever your decision may be, it will make you happy.

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Golda

I understand why you might be confused, but feelings do change and adapt, so you should give him time to figure out how he feels. He waited for you when you broke it off, and if you really want it to work you should allow him the same. Obviously i don't know the circumstances, so maybe I'm not giving the right advice, but I hope this helps...

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pinzutu