i have said this “OK daniel, so basically your sad cos your 20, got no job and live at home ok? well my brother is gay, has adhd , has been bullied all his life, is 21 has no job and lives at home…. when he was away at uni for a year he tried to commit suicide twice…. i only know this cos i over heard a sad conversation between my brother and mum thought the floor. just hearing he had tried made me cry… how do you think i would of felt knowing my own brother fell so alone and upset that even his family could not help him? and what would of happen to my family? my mum and dad would of been devastated and our family, and you say only afew people would care? well still so what? people would care…. you have no brother and no sisters (that i know of) what would your parents do knowing that there son would rather kill him self then talk to them? can you even imagine how that would make them feel?i fucking can knowing about my brother… he has no friends from school as he was fully bullied, he does not go out to town or anything… yet he is happy cos he found what he enjoys in life and does that, he spends time with our parents and he could not be happier. so you may feel shitty at the moment but that’s life…. suck it up, and move on. do something then, make your life better if you don’t like it don’t be a fucking little shit and make your whole family suffer because you arnt willing to ask for help you selfish little bastard!” to a friend online and told him to go wake up his mum and to tell her and then phone a hotline as he feels depressed and is thinking about committing suicide, should i done this?