inability of talking

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sometimes when i’m with ppl, i feel like i don’t know what to say… but i think that if someone else was on my place they’d talk. What is this? i’ve been feeling this way since i was 6 and it’s getting worse. what to do ?

Category: asked February 27, 2015

6 Answers

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Mh, the information you gave us is a little poor, so I'll ask you: in which case you don't know what to say? In a large group of people you don't know, a small group of people, or a single friend? I think it's not something you should struggle about. For what I can say, you can be a shy person, or maybe you're just in a group of people different than you (they talk about things you don't know, they like different things, so it's obvious that you wouldn't really know what to say, especially if you're not a talkative peson). Don't say that someone in your place would talk. I as well don't know what to say in front of certain people, I usually let them talk and listen to them, but is something I accepted as part of my character: sometimes I take a deep breath and try to enter the conversation, and sometimes I just listen quietly. Take it easy, and don't worry too much. :) I wish you best luck.
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Maybe you're shy, maybe you're not interested in the conversation, or maybe you feel like you lack knowledge in order to actually take part in the conversation. Either way, you can fix it if you really want to.
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Hey guys 10x for the answers.Red Sheep, I feel that most of the time, I don't have much experience of communicating and when I'm like with my classmates, they're talking about daily things and I find myself unable to say something related to that. Or sometimes idk what to answer to a question.Junels, none of the above is true, I just find myself unable to respond.
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If you don't have something to say, you don't necessarily have to talk. You could just be the kind of person who doesn't like small talk and prefers to speak to people on a more personal basis. But if you feel like this is impacting you negatively, you can try practicing with people you know and trust.
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Hey silent radiance, the worst thinis that i dont have any friends and my only friedns is !y family, my sister who is 12. And yeah i talk to her but its not the same with other people.. I feel like theyll judge me.. Cause they also judge another ppl in front pf me...
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I have had that all my life. I recently realised that social skills can be worked on. Social skills is one of the big causes of my anxiety.Here is a blog that helped me a lot. http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/Hope it helps you learn some skills like it helped me.