In love with my bestfriend.

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I am in love with my bestfriend. She is dating someone, but I feel like she likes me in some way. We both have a lot in common and she is very open with me vise versa. We have even watched ‘mature content’, together if you catch my drift. One time we even fell asleep in each others arms. The girl she’s dating lives in a different part of the city and they don’t really see each other in real life. Sometimes I feel like she likes me even on a subconscious level. I just don’t know what to do. Should I move on or wait it out?

Category: Tags: asked February 2, 2014

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Move on, or actively change the situation. Waiting it out is you putting your life on hold for something that may or may not happen, and it could take who knows how long until it finds some kind of resolution. It's not worth doing that to yourself, especially seeing as it must suck to watch her be with someone else. There's also the possibility she's just interested in you as something more physical than emotional. You need to weigh the risks and choose which to do, but wasting away your time, time that could be spent happy and with someone who wants to be with you, isn't the right option.
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I think you've got to talk it through with her. If she's as good a friend as you describe, then she won't judge you for how you feel. Tell her that you've got feelings for her that are somewhat confusing, that you're telling her because you think she deserves to know, and that whatever happens you don't want to force her away.Hopefully she'll understand, and good luck with whatever you try to do
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Ok first of all MAKORRA <3Hehe second, I think you need to find out about how her relationship is going. I mean, if they're going strong and steady then I think you should move on and wish the best for her. If you really think that they're drifting apart and you're really convinced that she has some feelings for you, I suggest you confess! Life's too short and maybe one day you'll regret not confessing when you had the chance. But be careful. Friendships tend to end when one person falls for the other, but don't give up. No matter what, know that you guys are best friends! Have a heart to heart talk and just chat about her feelings and maybe even some of your's. Be there for each other no matter what :)