Imagination Always Takes Over

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How can I separate reality and my imagination? I care too much about what others think, and what is “weird” to do that , i am so hesitant to do or say anything. I really like this guy, and i have no idea how he feels, so i think that he probably thinks im too weird, but in reality he may really like me too, i have no idea….help!!

Category: Tags: asked March 27, 2013

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Don't worry about what anyone thinks, in life that is totally irrelevant, you gotta do things for yourself and not just do it but also be in that state of mind that everything you do is for and you only, i won't lie it'll take time but you have to be mentally independent, and for the guy just tell him how you feel when it feels right, and hint at it once in a while that your interested, and if your friends then have a conversation about your feelings and ask him out.
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I always think similar to that, what're people thinking, being judged, having insecurities, but in the end, it doesn't matter what you do, they're will always be people judging you sometime in your life. Having that in my mind makes me care less for what others think. If you like a guy, talk to him. "The first step is always the hardest, but it's the only way to reach the second step." Talk to him, talk to him, talk to him, everyday, every chance you get, make him notice you. The hardest part of that would be if you guys are in the different friend groups I know that might make you out of your comfort zone because you're worried what his friends are gonna think, people are gonna say, but do what your heart tells you. Whats the worst that could happen? Him rejecting you? There's plenty of fish in the sea, I'm sure you'll find the man of your dreams sooner or later.