I’m wondering if anyone knows a place where I can get peace.

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I’m 16, my parents fight alllllllll the time and I feel like my sisters don’t like me, Ive been on the verge of crying lately and i hate it. just want a place where I can focus on me, and have nothing to worry about or if there’s any tips on how to find a happy place or whatever. I just need to get out. Please and thank you. Oh, and it’s my first time on here sooo I don’t know if I’m doing this thing right or not haha

asked August 5, 2014

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my #1 place is the shower but if that isn't doable than go for a walk, find a place where you can sit for a while and think. I found a creek with a bridge type thing no one ever goes there, its a nice kind of place to sit and be alone for a while :) go out and find your place
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hey i feel you I'm 14 and my parents fight all the time and my little brothers are so noisy you should sit in the roof put on soft music and drink tea this helps me all the time :)
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Thanks so much (:
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The most peaceful "place" I have ever been, is driving about 4:30 in the morning, away from the city, so you just drive, play soft music and the stars and moon are the only things illuminating your way. It feels like they are there for you, sending you a silent message that only you can listen to. It's just beautiful and peaceful and you just feel like in that moment, everything's going to be alright.
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Do you have a bike, or is it safe to walk around your neighborhood? My peaceful moments come when I can just walk around the block a couple of times, but then again, I don't live in a city.
On the other side, my sister converted a closet into a hideout for herself. She has a few blankets in there, a lamp, her ipod, and who knows what else, and our family knows not to disturb her in there.
A third idea would be to stay up late or get up early for some peace. When everyone is in bed, you can do as you like as long as you're quiet.
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Seek out some missionaries from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Live the basic principles and get a temple recommend. Go to the temple, that is a place of solitude. The time you spend with the youth and young single adults will bring you a peace you never thought possible before all that anyway. Even with the missionaries. Don't ever think they're too good for you. That's my advice.
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Are you open-minded about religion? If so please check out Islamicity.com and read the Quran and Sunnah. If you take Allah as your only helper and protector, and only depend on Allah, and Follow the Path, you can go to Heaven. You'll find peace with Allah, if you only depend on Him, and only fear Him. He can send you to Hell easily. He is the Firm One, but He is also the Merciful,and the Oft-Forgiving.Noble Quran 2:26 : "Allah disdains not to use the similitude of things, lowest as well as highest. Those who believe know that it is truth from their Lord; but those who reject Faith say: "What means Allah by this similitude?" By it He causes many to stray, and many He leads into the right path; but He causes not to stray, except those who forsake (the path),-"Noble Quran 93:1-11 : " By the Glorious Morning Light,And by the Night when it is still,-Thy Guardian-Lord hath not forsaken thee, nor is He displeased.And verily the Hereafter will be better for thee than the present.And soon will thy Guardian-Lord give thee (that wherewith) thou shalt be well-pleased.Did He not find thee an orphan and give thee shelter (and care)?And He found thee wandering, and He gave thee guidance.And He found thee in need, and made thee independent.Therefore, treat not the orphan with harshness,Nor repulse the petitioner (unheard);. But the bounty of the Lord - rehearse and proclaim!"Noble Quran 5:54 :"O ye who believe! if any from among you turn back from his Faith, soon will Allah produce a people whom He will love as they will love Him,- lowly with the believers, mighty against the rejecters, fighting in the way of Allah, and never afraid of the reproaches of such as find fault. That is the grace of Allah, which He will bestow on whom He pleaseth. And Allah encompasseth all, and He knoweth all things."Noble Quran 53:43 :"That it is He Who granteth Laughter and Tears;'Noble Quran 9:51-56 :"Say: "Nothing will happen to us except what Allah has decreed for us: He is our protector": and on Allah let the Believers put their trust.Say: "Can you expect for us (any fate) other than one of two glorious things- (Martyrdom or victory)? But we can expect for you either that Allah will send his punishment from Himself, or by our hands. So wait (expectant); we too will wait with you."Say: "Spend (for the cause) willingly or unwillingly: not from you will it be accepted: for ye are indeed a people rebellious and wicked."The only reasons why their contributions are not accepted are: that they reject Allah and His Messenger. that they come to prayer without earnestness; and that they offer contributions unwillingly.Let not their wealth nor their (following in) sons dazzle thee: in reality Allah.s plan is to punish them with these things in this life, and that their souls may perish in their (very) denial of Allah.They swear by Allah that they are indeed of you; but they are not of you: yet they are afraid (to appear in their true colours)."Noble Quran 2:98 :"Whoever is an enemy to Allah and His angels and apostles, to Gabriel and Michael,- Lo! Allah is an enemy to those who reject Faith."Noble Quran 113:1-5 :"Say: I seek refuge with the Lord of the DawnFrom the mischief of created things;From the mischief of Darkness as it overspreads;From the mischief of those who practise secret arts;And from the mischief of the envious one as he practises envy"Noble Quran 22:78 :"And strive in His cause as ye ought to strive, (with sincerity and under discipline). He has chosen you, and has imposed no difficulties on you in religion; it is the cult of your father Abraham. It is He Who has named you Muslims, both before and in this (Revelation); that the Messenger may be a witness for you, and ye be witnesses for mankind! So establish regular Prayer, give regular Charity, and hold fast to Allah. He is your Protector - the Best to protect and the Best to help!"“Say: “O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.” (Surah Az-Zumar 39: 53)“And return [in repentance] to your Lord and submit to Him before the punishment comes upon you; then you will not be helped.” (Surah Az-Zumar 39: 54)