I love my friends, but they are extremely boring. Every time we are all hanging out, it’s to watch a movie or play video games, or just sit around and drink. Those are all fine activities in moderation, but I prefer to do more active, fun, novel things! When I suggest something, it can be like pulling teeth, but I’ve managed to get folks to do karaoke, go on hikes, dress up fancy just to get appetizers at a local bar, etc… nothing crazy, but something outside of our comfort zones. Afterwards people always thank me for coming up with such a great idea, tell me how much fun they had…. But I wish someone else would come up with an interesting idea and manifest it!!!! I don’t want to be a leader, but nobody else will lead. I don’t want to “dump” my friends, because they are genuinely good people, but I wish they would come alive more. What can I do?