i’m so confused

it comes and goes. all the time. this…. feeling. i dont even know what to call it other than depression. but in a way i feel its different. its not all the time. i wake up and i’m fine. when i go to school i’m laughing and happy with (what i think are) my friends. though as soon as i get home i have all the thoughts going through my mind. feeling unwanted, not cared about. stupid, worhtless, useless etc. it just hits me like a huge wave. one miute happy then bam depressed again. i dont know how to stop it or get rid of it except by sleeping it off. i thought talking with friends would help but.. i dont have any. and i dont know how to really make friends either… so… anyone have any tips on making friends and staying happy/

Category: Depression Tags: # confused depression help no friends asked September 17, 2013

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antisocialdaisies

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Hm, I'm not sure whether to label it as depression or not...what I DO know is how relatable that feeling is. Kids everywhere are totally like that, even me! It's normal to have negative feelings as that, but don't let it get control of your life! Making friends is waaaay easier than you think, there are so many people in the world that it's pretty much impossible to not have one! Find people that have things in common with you!! (Movies, music, TV shows, etc.) If you need to talk more, message me! xoxo hope I helped!

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Snow Queen

So....I'm apparently good at making friends and my best advice is be nice and weird honestly. If you're just like everyone else no one's gonna randomly talk to you, try to be more yourself than anything else. Then, when you meet someone you think could be a good friend just talk to them normally like "What's your favorite colour?" (My favorite question) or "How are you" Just kinda establish a talking relationship. Good luck, I hope all works well!!!

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Quinn

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I'm the same way...try to seek out people that actually care enough to give you advice or help you. Those people are your friends, hun. But you can write down every little thing that seems to be bothering you and then burn it. Helps me a little, hope it does the same for you.

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Ms.Dasia