Im not sure if i love him yet

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So i just got out of a really really long, long distance relationship where the love died and i felt like since i couldnt move back it would be best to break things off since he stopped trying. Since i felt like i was ready to move on i started looking and found this wonderful guy through a friend of a friend and we started dating kinda soon after the breakup. though we havent been going out for too long he is convinced i am the best thing that ever happened to him and today he said that he loved me. i have feelings for him, dont get me wrong, but im not sure if im “love” with him yet but i really dont want to mess things up since he has made me happier in this worth month than my past relationship managed to in 3 years. im just not sure how i should approach this….

Category: asked December 30, 2014

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You approach it slowly take your time saying I love you to someone he haven't even dated yet seems a bit fast to me but that's just me you take all the time in the world if your the best thing that's ever happened to him then he can wait for it don't let him persuade what you should do never jump Into a relationship unless your ready. Then you sit down and ask yourself if you are intrested in him love doesn't come from one month of knowing someone it doesn't even have to come in 1 year. I hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck :)
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I would be entirely honest with him. My fiance and I agreed that no "L" word would be exchanged until we felt completely comfortable. Just tell him exactly what you said up there, "[you have] made me happier in this worth month than my past relationship managed to in 3 years, but im not sure if im “love” with [you] yet." He should understand completely ☺