I fell in love at 13, and for 6 or so months I was off an on with who had been my best friend for 2 years. After I moved hundreds of miles away (we had already been seperated for awhile) we lost touch. We reconnected for a time a few months ago, and I could still feel like she had me wrapped around her finger. I hated that she still had me pegged. But she’s relapsed, and has been on meth for a while now. I know what addiction does to people, I’ve had my own struggles and it’s very common in my immediate family. But she’s shut me out! She still feels like I’m the same person I was 1 year and a half ago, even though I’m much different. How to I get her to let me in? Let me talk her through things and be there for her as a friend?