I’m having issues communicating with my boyfriend?

I’m usually a very good communicator, I’m open about how I feel and why I’m feeling it, I can pin point the why’s, the who’s, and the when’s very easily…but as of recently, I havent been able to talk about my feelings or why I’m irrationally irritable with him. I have begun to grow very irate and frustrated, sexually I dont feel the same, I just kind of want to be left alone. He is 17 and I am 18, we’ve been dating for about two years now…I’m not sure why I’m having troubles talking about my feelings with him, when I can voice it perfectly with anyone else.
any advice? :/

Category: Dating & Relationships asked October 16, 2013

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SilenceTheScreams

4 Answers

Sit down and be honest with him. Usually there is a base reason as to why you're feeling the way you are. I can't really give a ton of advice from your point of view being a guy myself, but I know from a guys point of view I would want you to talk to me and be honest. If you're feeling these things he needs to know. I hope this somewhat helped..Sorry if not! :)

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Corygeor

has there anything that has changed recently? with either of you? and i mean in life not just with you two.

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maxxedoutdepression

More than likely he has nothing to do with whats bothering you, most of the time when were irritated and angry well try to blame others or take it out on them and it's because their around us not because their causing us to be upset. Take some quiet time by yourself to think about what will make your life happy.

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Lilybug

Sit down by yourself and start writing. Not something for him to read, just... for you to sort out your own thoughts. Start writing whatever comes to mind and keep doing it until you feel you've reached some clarity. At least, that has always helped me figure myself out when I feel uncertain like that. Once you've given form to everything and spilled it out, you can think it through and hopefully convey it to your BF clearly.

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Tony