I’m going to have sex for the first time, and I feel like I’m going to cum too fast. How do I avoid?

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I am a male, and I feel like im going to cum in like one second of insertion.

Category: asked August 21, 2014

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First thing I would recommend is to relax and not worry about it too much. You can get some help! There are condoms with numbing chemicals on the inside and lubrication on the outside to help. You could also masturbate before hand. Either way... it is your first time... don't but too high an expectation on yourself.
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When you first lose your virginity it should be a pleasurable moment for you and your partner nomadder what happens. I made sure that when i lost my virginity it would be with someone i trusted and felt comfertable with. I lost mine to my boyfriend of 2 years now and i look back and dont regret it at all because it was a good learning experience for me and didnt force myself do be a certain way or anything. As a girl i wouldnt blame a guy for cumming too fast. It would actually be more of a turn on because that would tell a girl how much you liked it. Theres nothing wrong with it so dont be scared or anything. Communication is also key so just let the girl know i mean maybe shes nervous about things too and talking it out is best. People always try to make a huge deal out of their first time having sex and how it has to be perfect. But it doesnt have to be at all and just making sure your ready for it is best.
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Don't worry too much about that. If it happens, it happens.
A lot of women might enjoy penetrative sex but many need other forms of stimulation to orgasm, so if you are really worried, make sure to make time for plenty of foreplay that you'll both enjoy. Sometimes it's not the end but the journey that is the most important!
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Practice! Practice relaxing and re-invigorating yourself after orgasm. Sex is not a hit-or-miss talent, it is a perishable skill; the more you do it and the more ways you try, the better you get.
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Some of us have the opposite issue: it takes TOO LONG!!! partner gets bored... Just be yourself and all good things!!
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I like some of the answers on here. I'm a girl and don't really know that much, but I think maybe if you guys could talk about it. And I heard the thing that someone said about calming down and masturbating before hand works. also maybe know that there are ways to make it enjoyable beyond penetration. So if what you fear does happens, don't worry. research some other things you could do to pleasure each other. I mean if it is important to you to make sure she has a good time, then talk about somethings she may enjoy. I'm sure you will be fine. Putting pressure on yourself will make it tougher on you. Just know if it does happen it's not the end of the world. Some girls even think it's sexy that they can turn a guy on that much. Hope this helps some. Like I said I don't know that much about it. Good luck.
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Don`t bother about it too much. Firstly firs sexual experience is always not a very pleasant thing. There is nothing shame if you would cum fast, anyway you have second and third attempt. They would be last longer for sure. If you are scared that you wouldn`t be able to have sex more than one time you may also try great and effective commander viagra suisse. It will help you for sure, but do not overdose it and read instruction.
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Poor potency is a consequence, not a cause. We must look for a reason. And most often it is non-hormonal. And “bursting” hormones in an uncontrolled manner is unlikely to change the situation for the better — it will only exacerbate. Before you prescribe something for yourself, you need to go to the doctor and take tests and treat the cause, not the effect, for them. But this is if regularly nothing happens in terms of sex. And if this is an isolated case, then you can put yourself pills cialis from india, in reserve.
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Dude, if you have your first sex, it’s best to prepare well for this. The thing is that this is the first time the body is not ready for this and therefore we can finish too quickly. I would recommend you Viagra but it is very harmful in such cases use levitra. You can order it from https://andrikofarmakeio.com/generic-levitra/. After one tablet, your penis will become very strong and your sex will last a very long time! Good luck and make her happy:))