Im freaking out

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Listen I just want complete honesty on here. First of all I have never tried this before. I am sitting home alone on a sat night in college, idk what what is wrong with me. I think I have such high expectations that I will meet the girl of my dreams every weekend. I mean I am 22 years old and never had sex. I keep thinking there is something wrong with me, but idk. Please someone just say something to me.

Category: asked March 30, 2013

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Hey, there is nothing wrong with you, unless you decide that it is so. In today's society, if you aren't having sex, you aren't cool. But, I'm not sorry that you haven't had sex - maybe it just means that you've been doing other nice things! We don't need to care what anybody or the society thinks, they don't care about us anyway. There are many other nice things in life other than sex, you can go and do them, find something that makes you happy and which you have the chance to do, and do that. I mean, sex isn't all that important anyway, why should it be so important ?By the way, I'm a 22-year old who has never kissed, let alone had sex!
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22 and a virgin? I am very sorry to hear that, because I can say even in my very limited experience, that sex is awesome and very good for you. Make the first one count my friend, it stays with you. In that sense I am jealous of you, because that anticipation is magical.Otherwise, the scenario you describe is a tricky scenario, as clearly you want to be out and about, meeting new people and living it up, but it just does not seem to happen. It might be a good idea to ask yourself why that is. Maybe you are nervous about social scenarios or with the unknown, in which case you are far from alone. TL;DR? Nothing is wrong with you, try and relax your standards on yourself, they hold you back