im confused about myself

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I have always identified myself as straight but there’s always been something there towards other girls. When I was little I had crushes on girls and have kissed girls but I’ve never thought much of it. Lately I’ve been beginning to question if any of the events in my past meant anything because these feeling I’ve been having have gotten more intense towards girls (in case you didn’t know I am a girl). I don’t know what to do with these feeling or how to process them properly and I really hope someone can help me sort out these feeling and find who I am.

Category: Tags: asked October 14, 2013

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Whatever brings joy to your life... that will always be what is right for you. Labels and stereotypes can be intimidating. Some people avoid using them altogether and just say, "I will love whomever I will love". The important thing is: your heart will not deceive you. A friend of mine once told me, "It's only after honesty and love continue to take root over fear that we can feel comfortable expressing our truth to the world." Sometimes we talk negatively to ourselves when we are scared. It's always good to be aware of these thoughts and gently speak love back to ourselves instead, encouraging our own personal truth to be made clear to us and encouraging ourselves to unconditionally love and support who we are in our hearts. YOUR truth, whatever it is, is being expanded and improved upon, even if it is just a deeper understanding of heterosexuality, it's all about the growth of your beautiful heart. <3
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Well is there any girl you are particularly interested in? if so if she is into women confront her, tell her. The only way to figure these feelings out is to confront them. and explore them
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We would not know exactly but if there is anyone in your life who you know for sure to be homosexual (and is a female) then you could try talking to them a little bit about it. And I think that if you are homosexual then you will know it in your heart.