Im a teen girl and cam old men and do whatever they say please help

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i dont show my face while camming but i do whatever they ask most the time. its a terrible habit that just makes me feel bad about myself by the end of the day. but every night i end up doing it again. im not this type of person. please please help me.

asked June 19, 2013

4 Answers

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I used to do the same and felt the same just showed my face too, and didn't matter who asked but what I ended up doing was just not going near my laptop till I learned that I'm worth more then that and I also deleted Skype and MSN from my lap top to stop the temptation.
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If it's something that makes you feel bad, you need to sit down and think about what it is that makes you do it and work out a way to fix that with yourself. If you want to force yourself out of the habit, I would say to lock your phone and computer up at night and put it in your parents room so that you couldn't get it without waking them up or something of the likes. Unfortunately, this is something that you can't do unless you're really willing to.
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Sounds like an approval issue my dear. Seeking the approval of those whom you dont even know or care about is common for those who feel abandoned or ignored by parental figures. Sometimes its associated with identity stuff, e.g. not feeling strongly in who you are as a person. You can try turning off your computer at night but it wont address the underlying issues.The best thing you can think about is who you really want approval and love from deep down, and how it makes you feel that you haven't received it. Start there. I also wouldnt be surprised if its a parental figure, as its older people you want the approval from.
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It seems to me that porn has nothing to do with cheating - after all, these are completely different things. At the same time, it can have a great effect on the relationship in a couple or be a wake-up call. If you're watching camwhores together to find out what you like or get turned on, that's okay. If the partners are far from each other, or one of them is temporarily unable or unwilling to have sex, and the other decides to watch porn, this is okay. And what about you?