I’m a girl and I only have guy friends?

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Well hello. I started my freshman year at high school, and I’m living with a new parent and such. Needless today I’ve been a bit stressed and overwhelmed. When it comes to making friends, I’m a bit quirky. I play a lot of video games :LoL/WoW/everythingelseoutthere. Most girls here are very preppy so I hang out with a lot of guys.
It worries me though, does this mean I’m not that girly? I try to be but I just can’t be very girly.
So is it alright for me to hang out with all guys? Or is that weird?

Category: Tags: asked September 23, 2013

8 Answers

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You know its just fine to have guy friends but look out for the girls in similar situations as you. Like the ones that aren't preppy. I know they're hard to find, but they are there. Make sure you don't start liking more than one of your guy friends if you ever like one. I used to have nothing but girls as friends, and i started liking two of them, it did NOT end well. Just make sure you keep your priorities straight and no, it does not make you non-girly. Totally not weird. Also keep your self-respect and don't let them use you. :)
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I would say just hang out with people that you enjoy and that you have fun with and share similar interests with. If that happens to be guys so be it. Personally I prefer friendships with guys over girls. But you have to stay true to yourself. Don't think because you have a lot of guy friends you lose your womanhood, and hey there's nothing wrong with not being 'girly.' It just doesn't appeal to a lot of us and that's okay too. Be comfortable with who you are not what other people want you to be.
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I don't think it matters what gender you surround yourself with as long as you're comfortable and happy. Some people like hanging out with just girls some people like you prefer guys and some people like being around a certain race too. I think as long as it doesn't cause any problem or harming anybody then just do what you want to do!
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I'm a lot like you, I too have most guy friends and love to play games (mostly LoL and Minecraft). It's nothing wrong with that! I actually think guys are a lot more fun then girls because they're more relaxed and there's not much talking behind backs and stuff like that. And not being "girly"? Well some are and some aren't. I'm somewhere in between where I love a good shopping spree yet get super bored talking about looks and celebrities. As long as you're happy then there's nothing weird with that :)
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First off: you're awesome.

Second: don't worry about it! You don't have to fit into anyone's "standard" or "category", and just cause you hang out with boys doesn't make you any less feminine. I have very few female friends and I'm doing just fine. Sure, stereotypes surround me but I don't have to prove anything to anyone but myself. Am I a lesbian? No. Am I sleeping with all of my male friends? Definitely not, the majority of them are very smelly and gross. It doesn't make me any less of a girl.

To be honest, I think you have the upper hand here. The benefit of being friends with males is the refreshing lack of bitchiness. They tell you if they have a problem, instead of getting catty and talking about you behind your back. Nothing wrong with an extra brother who's got your back.

You carry on exactly the way you are, sister.
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It's ok to just have mostly guy friends, that's all I had as a kid and I'm a chick. Don't be girly if that's not you. Be yourself. Best advice I can give.And this is coming from a very butch adult female.If you are worried about dating when you're older, someone will always be out there that likes you for you.Heh, you kind of sound like me when I was your age.
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Be yourself. Nobody's walking in your shoes, just make your own decisions and be you :)
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its definitely not the "gender" its more about the personalities and who you can be yourself and comfortable around. hanging out with guys definitely does not make you less of a female. just always be you and true to yourself always :)