I’m a bit confused.

So, there’s these two guys, and I really like them both.
The first one is 15, super-athletic, sweet, funny, kind, good with my little siblings.
The other is 17, kinda nerdy, really funny, sweet, kind, and good with my little siblings.
I’m 14, which could be a bit of an issue with the older one, but the problem is that they’re uh, brothers. Is that bad, that y’know, I like them both? I have a bit of a history with the younger one, we were best friends for 3 years, but haven’t talk much since then. The older has been paying attention to me lately, and we seem to get thrown together (alone…) quite often. I just don’t know what to do! I don’t want to start hanging out/dating one and then the other gets upset or jealous! This is hard.
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Category: Dating & Relationships asked July 25, 2014

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Adeline

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My advice is stay away! If you choose to be with one of them you will be asking yourself what it would be like if you were with the other one or wether your choice was the correct one and if it isn't then that is going to be a big problem. It usually ends awkwardly, but I know a friend that was in a similar situation an they are still together so do what you think that will make you happier in the long time.

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Auri

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Hey there Adeline! I agree with Auri. If you truly like and care about both of them, it would be impossible to just pick one. Not only would that cause problems for you, but for them as brothers as well. I'm not saying don't. I'm just saying look at all the possibilities. On the other hand. Whoever you pick, the other might be happy for you both. And it could be amazing and you could get married! Who knows? That's probably an exaggeration but; anyways. If you value them as friends over a most likely temporary relationship. Stay friends. Trust me. I've lost man a good friend by dating them. I hope I helped c: ~Soulless-Infinity~

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Soulless Infinity

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Well, you are very young, so this is just a very weird situation. First of all, I think you should be with the younger brother because he's more your own age and the fact that you and he have more history. You actually know him and so on. But I am kind of worried that you might be seeing things when you are hanging out with his brother. Maybe he was just being nice to you? You said that he was nerdy, well, you might just be seeing things that you want to see. And if it really is that they both like you. You should probably stay away from both of them. You don't want to risk hurting and losing them both, right? Anyway, I hope my answer helped you.

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Helen Smith

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Give them a break&stay away for a little a while don't get caught up in brother fight s and guy code

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