I’m 18, and he’s 26. We’ve talked 24/7 for months, and I know who he is and everything about him, and my mom even talked to him on Skype I’ve tried to talk to her about going to see him in New York for months but she constantly avoids the question and now we just got into a screaming match about it because I want to go over New Years and she won’t talk to me about it.
She said that she was avoiding it because she hoped that I would ‘forget about it’. But I tried to be an adult and actually talk to her like an adult about going to see him for two weeks and coming home. I would be spending all of my money myself, none of hers, all I would need was a ride to the airport.
I did everything she asked for her to ‘think about it’, I told her everything I knew about him, told her all the details, etc, and I just really wanted her blessing to go but now we just got into an argument with her not accepting anything I was saying and not listening and just saying that I was going to die, or get myself killed, etc.
I really want to do this, one big trip before I go off to college next fall, and she’s not accepting of it at all. I’m 18, should I just get my tickets and go anyways? I know everything about this guy, I just wanted her blessing and she won’t give it to me.