If he's cut off all communication with you and your little girl, then I'd begin the steps to let him go. But, if he still will Skype/Facebook/Twitter with you, then that can be good for your relationship and for your daughter. During the wait, I would suggest only talking to him a few times a week, that way you don't get too clingy when he wants space and so that you don't get overly attached if he decides to stay where he is.With your daughter, I'd explain to her in the near future that people do leave but that it's important to not forget the fun times you had with that person.I don't know all of the situation, so this is all that I have to offer. I hope all goes well!