If you love a butterfly let it go,if it loves you it will come back. what to do in the wait?

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My dearest was my closest and only confidant for two years, and finally it was too much. He has gone back home for some space and I’m ok with that, I miss him soooo much but I understand… the hardest part is my 4 year old who loved him like her father doesn’t even want to talk about it…. I feel very lonely and hurt but happy he is happy…

Category: asked July 15, 2013

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If he's cut off all communication with you and your little girl, then I'd begin the steps to let him go. But, if he still will Skype/Facebook/Twitter with you, then that can be good for your relationship and for your daughter. During the wait, I would suggest only talking to him a few times a week, that way you don't get too clingy when he wants space and so that you don't get overly attached if he decides to stay where he is.With your daughter, I'd explain to her in the near future that people do leave but that it's important to not forget the fun times you had with that person.I don't know all of the situation, so this is all that I have to offer. I hope all goes well!
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I definitely agree with the above poster. If he's unwilling to contact this little girl, no matter WHAT is going on between you and him, start trying to move on-even if he comes back after a while. After two years, he should see her as his child as much as she Sees him as her father and a good father should be willing to put in some effort. But if he truly just needs some space, make the most of it. Take this time to think of why he needed space to begin with and ask yoursef what you can do to make things easier on him-even if you're not at fault. He'll appreciate the gesture, especially after he's had some Space and time to think as well. :)