I worry to much

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so I’ve been talking to this girl for awhile now and I’m really starting to like her and I think she’s starting to like me back. we flirt allot and she’s even talking about heading over here in Chicago for c2e2 (Chicago Comic Con Entertainment Expo) and planning to cuddle with me in the hotel room.

I don’t wanna tell her I want our to be more then friends yet cause I wanna wait till she gets here ( she lives in Scotland and I live in Chicago)…..

But I have a serious problem. I feel ignored. when she’s brb and she didn’t tell me, I feel ignored. and I HATE that! that happens all time with my friends…we go afk and we don’t say brb….hell I’ve done it to her before many times.

but every time she goes brb and doesn’t tell me I feel like hell….and I really don’t know why! I wanna slap myself for being so stupid!

and when she does return we have a normal convo like always…..and I instantly feel better…what the hell is wrong with me?

I don’t wanna be a worried type person, I hate those kind of people…but I’m feeling like a hypocrite here and I hate it….

mostly when she’s brb she’s playing mindcraft…I tried buying the game but something fucked up happened with my payment…(long story)
I don’t want our convos to die down I like talking to her..I like it when we flirt and talk about cuddling…but I feel like it’s dying down…

I think I’m worrying too much…how can I calm down a bit and stop acting stupid?

Category: asked November 28, 2013

2 Answers

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I think that she is interested in you, and you do just need to calm down and go with the flow. I know it's hard, but sometimes all you can do is let things happen. Right now, I think you're doing all you can do, and you don't want to force anything. I know you'll probably still worry until you see her, but you have relax, maybe distract yourself while you wait for her response, and accept that eventually she will come back (because she always does, doesn't she). Remember to breathe!
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You shouldn't worry to much. I'm one of those people who don't say brb when I'm going to brb. She might have just been busy. It's not something to get to overworked about even though your heart is in the right place. You just need to remember that if she's gone for along time she'll eventually text you back.