I will never have a bf! I give up, man

You may be sick of hearing this, but it's true: you're only 16 and you have your entire life ahead of you! Don't worry about not being able to find a boyfriend now. High school is one of the worst environments to make friends in, since you are forced together under no particular common interests other than than the completion of your education. It's a terrible place to meet friends or significant others in most cases. A lot of high schoolers are in a rush to find a boyfriend or girlfriend, but there really is no hurry. Becoming desperate will only lead you into a rushed relationship that will probably be regrettable, short-lived, or both.

If you're planning on attending college, then it is way easier to meet people there. University students are there because they want to be there, and you're able to do things specific to your own interests with other people who are interested in the same things as you. However, you want a boyfriend now, so the best thing to do, in my opinion, is to emulate that by joining clubs at school or doing activities that interest you outside of school.

Even if you can't find a boyfriend now, that's perfectly fine! Don't stress yourself worrying about it. Just do what you love to do, and you will eventually find someone naturally, even if it takes a while.

your still young and so are all the guys that you've tried dating. you nor they even know what a real relationship is yet. don't give up just cause you can't find love among immature people. give it time, it will come.

There is more to life than having a boyfriend you know. Especially at that age.

And I have to ask why. I will not tell you to get over the fact that you're un-porkable if we don't know what the issue is. What are your weaknesses and how can we fix them?

Do you think you're ugly? I've seen the fugliest of fugs hook up with people just because they fake their attractiveness by overshadowing it with a massive amount of confidence. Do you think you're not funny or charming? What instead are you good at that you can bring to the table and show these guys that you're a commodity; a force to be reckon with.

What if you're a late bloomer, you know, one of those chicks that are super dogs in high school but once they hit college become major bro-magnets, but at the time didn't know they could be super gorgeous until they started fixing things about themselves that made them happy...

Don't throw in the towel just yet, love. Every one deserves to have someone special in their life. In the mean time, let's work on the positives about you that you can improve to make yourself feel good.

- Fark

Most things have been told. All I'll add is that we create our reality with our thoughts, meaning "we will get, what we think we will get".