I just moved to a new place. I met this girl online and she was really cool and we only hung out on only one occasion one-on-one before she invited me to her house… things were nice and cordial when I got there and she was really friendly but I felt really rigid and stiff and then a couple of her friends came over and I found myself to be so shy and uncomfortable and like I had nothing to contribute… I was really only there smiling and listening, barely, and every time I tried to talk things came across as forced and then we went out and things got even worse. The girl and I went outside and I apologized for being so shy and she reassured me it was fine and it didn’t matter and you couldn’t hear inside anyway. I just remember wanting so badly to leave and it wasn’t because of anyone I just felt like I couldn’t be myself for some reason and I couldn’t escape that mode of thinking, and I usually don’t behave this way but I feel like it may have been the subconscious pressure to just make friends…. the girl texted me she was glad she met me but I still feel like I ruined everything and in all honesty I wouldn’t want to hang out with me again. I feel like it’s going to be hard to redeem myself and I don’t know what stopped me from being receptive or wanting to make small talk. I felt uninteresting and submissive and just not welcome even though they were trying with me?