I thought it was fun

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I met a guy online a few weeks ago. I started a long distance relationship with him. At first i did it for fun, not serious. But later, he is just so sweet and i can’t resist. I think i’m falling for that guy i’ve never met. I facetime with him. But these days he’s acting very cool and he rarely text me. Like today, he just texted me that he was not very well and he loves me. He said he loves me but his action doesn’t. I know this relationship won’t work. As much as i want to end this, i can’t. I’m attached to him. Now, i’m afraid that he’ll leave me. I thought i wouldn’t fall for him but now this is not what i thought, i fall for him. Now, he’s acting very cold and i feel sad. I can’t even breathe properly, beside i have breathing problems. And it’s funny how i’m feeling for the guy i’ve never met. I know he may want something real, like real relationship in his life. And i hope the best for him. But i’m afraid that he’ll forget me and leave me when he find someone in his real life because i’m just a girl he met online, nothing more :( What should i do?

I asked him if this relationship is real because it’s too good to be true. But he always reply that he really love me but he doesn’t know why. But his actions doesn’t say like this. :( I’m falling for him and i don’t know how to stop. I think i love him. I know this is crazy but..i can’t help. I feel so low if he doesn’t text me. What can i do? What should i do?

Category: asked May 30, 2013

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Red flag he loves you but cannot explain why..because he doesn't know you that is why. When men go from daily attention to being cold and distant 9 times out of ten that attention is being given to someone new. There are many people who misrepresent themselves online. There is a show on MTV called fished or fish its about online romances it allows people to meet their online love and usually its not at all what they thought. No matter why he is pulling away it is a growth experience for you. Life or fate may need this attachment out of the way because your destiny is leading you elsewhere. :)
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i would say that these kind of things do sound really promising but at the end of the day you do not know how they are in real life. i have been there and the experience was not good. long distance relationships where people have not even met once do not seem to last long as they are based on a personal fantasy. my advice is do not fall for a guy who has no time for you and if you want to take it ahead, please meet him and then fall for him.
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I know you'll probably think that this advice is crazy, but I promise I've been through similar situations before. The thing is, when you're in a relationship like that, you need to realize when enough is enough. If a relationship is affecting you negatively (such as you freaking out because he might not love you), you need to stop it. I absolutely agree that you should talk to him, without coming off as controlling. But if all he's doing is hurt you, you need to learn to put yourself first and walk away. I know it hurts a lot at first, hun, but I promise it gets easier <3