I am ready to be an open book now because I realize that this is truly bothering me and bringing down my confidence. ALSO, effecting me personally and profesionally.
So… My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years now and he helped me through a very difficult time for me when we had only a few months together, so now… like 1 month ago we decided to move together… One week after that, I was using his phone for playing games and then one conversation pop up (I know I shouldn’t read that) and I read the FB message, it was him asked out a girl, talking about seen again and doing the massage they both need, the girl was all way interested and keep the conversation with him… But what really matters was that he was the one with more interested and keep going with the conversation, so what I do was read the whole thing and previous messages (Don’t judge me) and I really hate myself for that, I felt and keep feeling betrayed…
I talk to him ( he was on the computer when I figured out on his phone but when we talk it was late bc I really want to think what I should say or how) and he told me it wasnt like that, that he dont know about that and someone enter in his fb. He denied everything…
But since then I dont know what to think and I really not the same person, at work I can not stop to think about it, and every activity is like I dont know what to do, he is my first boyfriend, he knows all my friends and family, he was my everything and if I try to talk to him about that girl he denied everything…
I want to believe it and think that someone try to make us break out but I know is impossible that someone hacked facebook accounts…
He called her and whatsapp/snapchat with her but now he is deleting everything so I just I dont know if he is in touch with her anymore and delenting stuff or just he doesn’t talk to her anymore…
I really dont know what to do…
Can you give an advice please?