I think my best friend is trying to push me away from her

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Me and my best friend have been best friends for 2-3 years, we dont get mad at each other or more than an hour. Now she is always finding ridiculous reasons for not meeting me, she said today that she had early dinner but ate two hours later, she said that she had to help her mother and went to meet another friend. I dont have so many other friends in my town and I feel really bad about this, she is talking to me normally but doesnt want to meet me, im afraid that she is slowly trying to push me away. what should I do? This is not somehting I would talk about to her :(

Tags: asked July 2, 2013

4 Answers

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Why wouldn't you just talk to her? You could ask her how you could be a better friend for her and see where that goes.
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There are a couple of different things that could be happening. You could be getting the slow brush off, I agree. But it may or may not be purposeful. Sometimes people just grow apart as they get older and find new things that they like to do and she may not realize that she's been making you feel this way. Another option is that she may just be busy and stressed out at the moment and not thinking of much of anything besides herself. Or even if this isn't the case, she may just be looking for more time by herself or doing different things, but that doesn't mean she likes you any less, just that she's finding new things she enjoys doing. I think talking to her about it would be the best thing, even if that's scary. It may answer all your questions and leave you both feeling a lot better.
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Well I have been in your shoes a couple of years back, she was my bff of 3 years and I know exactly how you are feeling. She met a guy and she started ignoring me and slowly we drifted apart. I hope this doesn't happen to you. My advice would be to talk to her, don't wait for the things to get worse, may be something is bothering her or someone has said something to her and instead of clarifying things, she is just slowly drifting. If you really care about her just talk may be things will work out. Good luck :)
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Sorry but I just got pissed at this mofo,(I am going to have to call her some names because i've had this shi* happen to me) That girl thinks she is BETTER than you.Well ya know what?She is fu*king wrong :L.1 choice:Talk to her. Another choice:Find someone and finally,when she wants you,YOU blow this bi*ch off.The last choice:Wait a while.Maybe it will change.