I think Im in love with my best friend, what should I do?

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She is completely awesome but I wouldn’t want to risk giving up a friendship for a failed attempt at asking her out.

Category: asked September 22, 2013

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do whatever you'd regret the least. Without meaning to sound selfish; you don't want to live in regret for what you did or didn't do. Good luck!
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First you need to ask yourself what is it exactly that you love about her, and ask yourself is it really love or is it just a crush? There's a big difference. I understand you wouldn't want to risk your friendship, nobody would. So I think you should figure out exactly how your feelings towards her are. If they're really strong up to a point where it's beginning to bug you then you should talk to her. But be sure to let her know that you don't want to ruin the friendship, but that you also need to get this off of your chest. Hope this is helpful x
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Look, I know how you feel because that happened to me (twice, to be honest). But I think that you should tell her. First time it happened to me, I just told him what was happening and we decided to go out. Our attempt didn't work out, but one month later we were friends again. Even if I still liked him, it wasn't awkward, because he was my best friend! And who knows? Maybe she feels the same way and you get to be together :) Good luck!!
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I think you should tell her how you feel about her, because who knows maybe she has felt the same way about you for a while now but she was to shy to tell you. If you guys are really best friends then if u tell her and she doesnt like you back, then hopefully you guys can still be best friends, but honestly you dont know unless you give it a shot
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If you really love her, and its not just some passing fancy, totally tell her. You guys are best friends, you should know how she reacts to advances in general. use that to your advantage. And if she she refuse you, its gonna hurt, but at least you know.