I saw some pretty obvious cuts on my friend.

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(A few months ago I was cutting myself and my friend at the time was actually my boyfriend BUT we’re friends now though. Also I’ve given up cutting hopefully for good!)

Well today I saw cuts on his wrist whilst his friends were doing Henna on his wrist. They didn’t take any notice of it but it really upsets me. I still really care about him as a friend and it hurts so much to know he’s doing this. I don’t know what I should do, do I confront him about know this or do I leave it because his friends aren’t taking any notice? I know that he wore a rubber band on his arm until it broke about a week ago also on tumblr he reblogs depressing stuff, he also has this book he wont let anyone look at. Am I really silly or are these tell-tale signs he’s really cutting? I mean, they were the type of cuts I used to do and I have genuinely seen them.

I’m just freaking out and I don’t know what I should really do because I’ve finally stopped this habit and now someone I care about is doing it… :(

Category: asked July 10, 2013

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talk to him say you've done it before and how you over came it. no one should feel alone. Some thing like that happened to me only a friend noticed it on me. She was and still is my best friend, she pulled me aside away from anyone else and asked what was up, at first i was pissed off cause i didnt think she understood and that she wasnt a real friend by saying that i needed help, but in reality she really did care and we went to see a teacher that we both trusted. best thing to do is let him know that you are there for him when ever he needs to talk. dont judge just listen, sometimes thats all people need. all the best