I need an opinion

Okay so I’m planning to invite my crush to go to the movies with me. However, I do not know whether or not she likes me I just think she does from things she’s done. She’s very antisocial(sometimes..she has been lately) and shy. She seems to talk to me more when we aren’t around a lot of people or people can’t hear us talking. She also has certain people that she’ll act different around. We are both 15 and both are girls. So what I’m trying to decide is
1. If it should just be her and I at the movies
2. A good way to ask her to help to motivate her to go (like I said she’s been antisocial lately)
If you have any other questions I’ll answer them. Thank you for any help!
I’m sorry if I put this in the wrong category…
UPDATE: I invited her today but she didn’t give a straight answer….also I found out I have to find a different movie because the one I wanted to go and take her to is rated R

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Taylor

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You should definitely ask her! As a shy person, I know I only talk to people I'm comfortable with, but it's definitely harder to if other people I'm not comfortable with are around, even if I think you're the greatest person in the world. Seeing as she seems to be really comfortable with you, you should ask her for it to be just the two of you. The movies is a very easy situation for shy people, a bit of small talk before you go in, no talking during the movie but you still feel like you're socializing, and once you come out of the cinema, those 2 hours or so you spent with the other person helps you feel looser and more comfortable. I don't think there's really anyway to 'motivate' her to come out with you, but you can encourage her but saying she can pick the movie (unless she says she doesn't know, then definitely pick it for you two) and that it's a really good movie and you really wanna go and hang out with her. I hope this helps, I went a bit off topic I think. :P

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Jess

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Thank you this was very helpful. It's hard for me to put myself in her shoes because I'm fairly sociable unless in a new environment so thank you so much!

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Taylor

Thank you. Both of your advice is helpful to me :)

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Taylor