My boyfriend of 9 months and I have been having pretty bad fights for the past 2 months. I love him to death, but my anger and jealousy seem to get in the way, and causing more harm then good. I dont want to end it, but I will if that means he can be happy… Im so torn and not sure what to do, any adivce will do.
has he given you a reason to be jealous? has he done stuff to anger you? are you angery when you two are together? are you angery when your apart or are the that times you are angery because your apart? you sound a little obsessed with this guy, and I don't know how old you two are so as for advice, all i can really say is I think you should dig deeper into what is really bothering you. You make it sound like he is the triger to your anger and jealousy. By the way, i believe jealousy is a waste of emotion, I have never seen anything good come from it.
@robin, wow that was a bit harsh. @the person asking this question. Maybe you should slow down and take a step back. Ask yourself what exactly is making you jealous and think about why it's making you feel that way. Maybe this has more to do with you and less to do with him. It's good that at least you know that you're feelings of jealousy and anger is straining the relationship and you're looking for advice. Maybe after working on yourself, you can work on having a calm and productive conversation, also try to have others who are around you to give you more advice since they might know more about your personality and the situation.