I just need help, please anyone

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My friend is suicidal. I’ve lost a few friends due to the same reason. I’ve tried everything! Telling them to go to see therapists, being like a brick wall for them to tell and yell everything at. And I can’t loose them, not this one. I need someone to give me advice please I’m begging, I need this friend like I need oxygen.

Category: asked September 26, 2013

6 Answers

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Okay, this first suggestion is because my school counsellor is really good. If you are still in school, tell the school counsellor. Then your friend will HAVE to go talk to the counsellor. If it is an option, alert the parents. However, if you don't feel comfortable with that, shower your friend in affection and love, even if it seems over the top. Do as many fun things as you can together. If you can, prompt their to talk about their issues to you, but don't push it! Randomly text them saying, "I saw/did _____ and thought of you!" Add smiley faces and hearts if it doesn't seem too extreme. Make this person feel like you would die without them and that they are needed and wanted. If you are desperate, sit this person down and have a heart to heart. Tell them that you do need this friend like you need oxygen. And lots of hugs. Seriously.
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Make sure they know how you feel about it, support them and dont force them into anything. Tell them that you will be there for anything they need you to and how important they are. It does get better, and they are loved by you and others and even by people they haven't lived to meet yet. You cant force them into a solution but you can help them work out a way that makes them feel better.
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I don't have any tips on what to do really, but if you think you're friend is really going to commit suicide at a certain time, please call the police in your area and they'll help you
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make them realize that going to that length is not necessary. Remind them of all of the wonderful things they contribute to your life and the lives of everyone else. Everyone gets depressed sometimes. Some more than others but it doesn't last forever. I am not sure what specifically making them feel this way but maybe you can try taking them out and have some fun even if they are reluctant at first. Something simple like that can make all the difference.
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first off, identify the reason this person is feeling suicidal,then you may have to tell somebody about it, and get help for your suicidal friend. don't take no for an answer. get this person some help! they may hate you now because you won't let them end their life, but once this person has been treated, this person will be really grateful, and you will show yourself to be a true friend to this person, because you're willing to make that tough decision for that person because you care for them.
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Tell their parents. It is VERY important that their parents know how their child is feeling as a lot of teens nowadays don't let their parents in. Everybody needs to know that life get's better and that their support circle will help them get through anything.