I just cannot get over her… and its bothering me so much.

Just try talking to her. It won't hurt just to give a simple message saying, "hey how yah doing?" or even "It has been a while, how have you been?" She could be missing you just as much. If none of that works and you can't bring yourself to getting over her. Try to do something out of your normal routine. Mix things up a bit, yes it'll take awhile to move on from someone no matter how long it lasted. You gotta keep your head up.

Just try talking to her. It won't hurt just to give a simple message saying, "hey how yah doing?" or even "It has been a while, how have you been?" She could be missing you just as much. If none of that works and you can't bring yourself to getting over her. Try to do something out of your normal routine. Mix things up a bit, yes it'll take awhile to move on from someone no matter how long it lasted. You gotta keep your head up.

well bro i dealt with the same problem. ive done the same things as you. what i did was talk to her and tried to make a compromise. when it didnt work i was forced to move on. it WAS hard but i still did it. and bro, i know you can too. just hang in there and talk to her as a friend and maybe your pain will go away. good luck :D

Try talking to her. If she doesn't want to talk, you cant force her.. It may be time to move on </3

Hi! I've been there too. It's hard to end a relationship and it's ok to have her on your mind for a while after you broke up, especially if you had a strong connection or you've been together for a long time. You can't just erase her, you were used to thinking about her all the time. Also it might be a sign that you need to get better closure and I know a great way to do that. You write a feelings letter addressed to her. And you just let your feelings out and you go: I'm angry/upset about...,I'm sad/dissapointed about, I'm scared/afraid that... I'm sorry for... I'm ashamed for...I hope/I wish...I understand/I forgive you for....I appreciate/I thank you for...This is an amazing technique I learned from Lauren Gray, a relationship coach! Let out all your feelings, don't edit anything and you'll feel relief. One more thing you can do is send her the last 3 positive parts of the letter but not expecting her to respond or react, just to know that you expressed that to her. Try it out and see how it feels. I hope you'll soon be able to focus more on yourself, enjoy being single and find a new hobby or passion or work on your personal development! Good luck !