I have no idea what I should do.


I have known this guy since about 2-3 years ago, we never really talked but this year we suddenly just hit off. It was only recently we went out on a date, it was really sweet, holding hands and all that, we even cuddled in the cinema. I thought it went great, conversation was awesome and we both laughed a lot. Thing is shortly after that, we got into a fight. I blew up and got really pissed at him. And I think I might just have went over board a little. Even though he kept apologizing, I didn’t really accept. I feel bad for it now. And looking back, it was not just him that was in the wrong, I was to blame too.
I feel really bad and really sad and I want to make things right again. But he just keeps ignoring me. That makes me feel even worse. I’ve apologized but I don’t feel any better. I have no idea what to do now. Should I call or just leave it be? I don’t want to lose him, he’s a really great guy for all his flaws. I’m scared I might lose him just because I got confused and blew up. I feel like beating myself up about it.

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3 Answers

maybe try calling him and ask him if he wants to hear what you have to say ,if he says something like hmm or just makes a sound just say everything you have to say even if he doesnt say anything back still tell him as long as he knows your trying. but if he hangs up on you just try to get him alone at school or some place, hes bound to listen then
But what if he is not picking up? Its not easy to meet up, since we live kinda far apart, schools included.
Well if he's not picking up then I say let it go. Of course you can always text him, but I don't think it's a good idea, since he's not picking up, it'll make you look too clingy. It's rude, not giving you a chance to explain regardless how much you overreacted.
I know you're thinking it's a shame since your date went really well, but it seems he isn't thinking the same way and he isn't willing to give it another chance, so there's no point pushing. Again, my advice is to stop trying completely. Good luck!