I have a crush on my new friend, when is the time to tell her?

well...I was in her situation a little over a year ago. My best friend liked me, couldnt tell me for a while...he probably ended up telling me in the best way I can think...he made it serious and didnt make it overbearing. He pulled me aside and told me he loved being around me....and that he just straight up had fallen for me. I wasnt shocked really, Girls know things. I still hung out with him even though I expressed that I couldnt since I was in another relationship. I liked him too...I had a falling out with the person I was dating, but it was still hanging in there somehow...so I had room for crushing I guess. Now here I am, about to have my one year anniversary with my best friend and boyfriend. You just have to trust yourself and trust that she will be straight forward with you and tell you if she likes you too or not.

You better act quickly before you put your ass permanently in the friendzone. Ask her out on a date or whatever kidz do nowadays and show your intentions clearly. One thing to keep things easier is to date other women at the same time to lay off the focus of her.

Yeah, dude: just straight up ask. You sound pretty confident, but just looking for a little push. You either get a great 'Yes!', or you stay friends. It doesn't sound like she'd just, stop being friends with you. Be happy with yourself either way and you're in the PERFECT position.

Don't be too passive. You gotta go for it and take a risk. The longer you wait, she will only see you as a friend. Then you be stuck in the friend zone forever. However, i have seen couples who have been friends for awhile and one day a lightbulb click. They eventually dated each other although they were friends for years. It's all about timing too.

What you need to do us to slowly hint at the fact that you are lesbian so that they don't get soluble shocked. Make it slowly more obvious and then one day tell her that you like her. Don't put any pressure on her over the situation, if she isn't in to you, ten there really isn't much you can do about it. Lacigreen on YouTube has a lot of great videos regarding any and all sides of this situation if you need further help.