I have a bipolar friend and it’s bugging me

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So I have this high school friend, were not really close but we sometimes talk but not all the time. So this high school friend of mine happens to be one of the most silent, the most shy, usually when you talk to her even though you have a close relationship, she usually freaks out and becomes speechless. She is the type of person that you usually approach first because she is intensly shy but one of the good things about her is that she is independent. But now, we are in college, and as a group of high school friends, we are now separated from each other because of the different paths in our lives including college but still, we usually call or text or chat each other every month. Now as for her, she is now in florida, and we are expecting good thing for her during her time there. But during the summer days, we somehow notice that she is posting som vulgar and very colorful distinct use of language. And we are shocked to know she is stating these posts because she was really a nice person. And their was one time were she called us “backstabbing fucking friends” and we were really shocked. And now she keeps on ranting about us linking us for her emotional problems, and when we confronted her through facebook she said that ahe was just jealous because she misses us she missed hanging out with us. But a few days after we tried helping her she began to post more indecent posts about us. In our opinion, for us, she didnt really fit in anywhere not even now that she is in florida taking up college their. I believe she didnt have any friends their and as we speak she is quite lonely right now and in need of desperate help. So I would just want to have our osld friend back the way she used to be because its hard talkingor chatting to her right now since she deleted us from every social media account that we all had. And we just want her to be more confident with herself. But our problem right now is she keeps on repeating the whole thing over and over again until we felt that it was already bothering us. Should we just let her go?

Category: Tags: asked April 15, 2014

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I honestly think you should try speaking to her again and tell her that she has no reason to feel that way because you and your friends have always been there by her side and will always be and that the things that she's saying and spreading around is hurting you and your surroundings. Just try speaking to her again and make her realize that she doesn't have to feel that way because that's not really the situation. Hope you and your friends feel better :)
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Everyone changes ive learnt that however this seems to be in a bit of a different way. Seems to me like shes confused herself she doesn't know what she wants maybe like you said she is struggling settling down in Florida and hasn't made many friends and just wants your support that she cant get. there's not much you can do if far away from her but try show her your there for her and miss her maybe try and find a way to meet her. but if she keeps pushing you away and saying that stuff behind your back shes going about it the wrong way cause you don't deserve that when your trying to be there for her. Just try talking to her again tell her how she is making you feel, put her straight tell her you are there for her but if she is going to throw it back in your face like that you will walk away. might make her realise what shes losing. Hope this helps a bit.. feel free to message me if want someone to talk too