i feel that there is something missing

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I have everything i need in my life … My family and my boyfriend that i love sooo much ! Friends … Yeah i have those people i stay with in school ! But they arent close ! My boyfriend is my best best friend i tell him everything ! And every weekend we hang out so i dont have time to make so plans with the people i know in my school !! And in fact i dont really like hanging out with them ! Anyway … I jyst dont have that crazy friend who is like mee and that i can call my twinn ! I just … U know ! Feel a bit weird because i am the only one who dont have a friend girl .. .a best friend … I do hang out sometimes with some people but we are not bestfriend anymore … People change ! I just feel weird and out of the world

Category: Tags: asked January 3, 2014

5 Answers

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id try to start splitting your time a little more equally, its always good to keep friends outside of school as well as a relationship. sometimes spending too much time with the person you are in a relationship with becomes somewhat harmful, unhealthy, and codependent. Think that over and see what you think! c:
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Do you really feel as if you are missing a best friend or is it just because if societies' pressure oN you ? Right now I have people who are always teltelling me that I need a boyfriend. For a while I believe that I was lonely and needed obe, but I know that is just because I am being told that and see other couples. It sounds like you would be fine without a best friend, but if you truly want obe just look for people with common interests.
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I know exactly how you feel. I have my boyfriend and family. I'm sociable but I don't have a lot of friends. I just recently lost all mine except for a few aquaintences. I don't know how I feel really... Sometimes I feel lonely but other times I'm fine with it. I haven't really met anyone that's similar enough to me. Even my cousins who I'm super close with, I feel different then. I don't usually get along with girls my own age.
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Whatever you do, don't look for a best friend. Don't try to make one out of somebody either. Your best friend is someone you'll stumble upon and get attached to with your similarities. When you meet someone new and you think that they could be your best friend, ask yourself "can I trust this person with my secrets?" If the answer is yes, then go for it, but don't force yourself on them. You seem like you could live without one, but you just feel like your missing out
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I think its harder for women to make close friendships than men. Every time I make a friend, it doesn't last long for one reason or another. The last two I had were only friends with me to get close to my boyfriend, now I'm a little gun shy. I'm starting to think my mother was right, that women are raised to compete with each other and that makes it difficult for women to trust each other as adults. That's my long winded way of saying, were all in the same boat, we want a BFF but were just not bread for it. The tv lies.