whenever i talk to my mom, which im always scared to talk to her because im usually feel awkward and wondering what i just did, but whenever i do like today i try to talk to my mom about my sister or how i feel and she say that i treat my sister the same way and she almost act like she doesn’t care and its just kill me. i just want to know what to do for her just to listen for once before i get all awkward and never talk to her again and what even worst i talk in my diary or sometime MYSELF! that how worst its getting and i want to talk to my mom about masturbathing and my feeling and shaving and my sister and all that stuff but im getting all scared of what she going to say. also im 11. please do not judge because i know some of u is going through this and don’t be mean because i have some small insecures.
when i read your question my heart went out to you, eleven is an age when you have all sorts of questions that you should be able to ask your mom without fear, and your questions are valid, and you deserve answers. Im thinking though, your going to have a whole lot more questions that kids your age have, and thoes too will deserve an honest answer. At 11 your just begining to grow in new ways and wonder.....so with that in mind, just simply say to her when your kom and you are alone, say mom , can I please ask you something?......it is better to ask now , and not put l it off because the sooner you and your mom establsh that question and answer relationship the better. Thos is something your gonna just gonna have to come right out and do....good luck and please keep in touch. It may seem hard now, but it will get easier.
this is actually my question :) I'm getting better and I'm scared because I'm shy and i feel like i can now talk to her but there some thing i can't talk to her because she get embarrass answer or she be like 'Kori' like she want me to stop talking or something but thx for answering
could be that your mom dosent know how to respond to your questions because while she was growing up her mom (your grandma) did not know how to respond to your mom's questions. ...I can imagine how fusterating this can be. And I know it's not the same thing, but there is a group on this site just for girls where they talk about everything girls talk about. So maybe that group could help answer some of the things your mom is having trouble talking about. :)
I understand just how you are feeling. This happens between my mum and i too. this is how i resolve it. If you can, go out with your mum to maybe a restaurant or a spa or someplace you two can have fun. Tell her all the fun things going on at your school and tell jokes and just have fun. When you are sure she has calmed down and she is happy, then tell her about your problem. don't go to meet her when she is cranky or unhappy. you can even do this at home. I wish you the best of luck!
thx robin and also jemima we homeschool and she right now my mom is sick, she just have the cold nothing serious and we talking more but some thing I don't ask her because im scared of what she going to say or when its about sex I afraid what she going to say because my mom is the mom who say whatever and sometime I wish she wasn't that mom lol
lol ah well Kori, lol ...keep in mind kids are not born with an instruction book lol , we moms learn how to be a mom on the fly, so to speak.....i hope your mom gets well soon, and the two of you keep talking :)
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