I feel like I’m never going to be loved?

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I never thought that I was that unlovable until recently. I see so many of my old friends with their boyfriends or girlfriends, and I feel terrible. Guys hate me. I’ve been told many times that I’m ugly, fat, disgusting, etc, all from guys that I thought were friends. Even when we were just joking around, and I’d try to hug them, they’d go, “Get away from me. You’re ugly.” I know that these people aren’t good to have around, but I didn’t know anyone else at the time. And, I really don’t think I’m that ugly. Sure, I’m not the skinniest person, but I’m not the biggest either, but I don’t think that really has much to do with beauty. And everyone always said that for liking music, and art, I was weird. Anyway, I just have this really bad feeling that I’ll never be loved. I’ll end up being one of those people that never has a true love. I know I’m only 17, but I fear that everything is just downhill from here?

Category: asked November 8, 2013

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Hi Evie;Yes you weird you like music and art. Yes I'm weird I like computers and stay at home without socializing, yes we are all weird people, but tank Good for that, that we are all different that means we bring something different to the world. Have you ever look how artist describe the society? Some of them are weird isn't it? And yes you should get away of those "friends", yes we can joke around what so ever, but for people who has low self-esteem one single word can hurt more than a baseball bat. How does been chubby or skinny person defines her beauty? I felt for a really chubby girl, most of the people will say she's not beautiful, and she's a bit ugly, and guess what, she knows for over a year and every time she puts me in my place, friendzone, but hey that's one thing that I need to get ride, but one step at a time. Don't forget one simple thing, you are stronger than you think, because before you go downhill, you look for help, how many people aren't that strong? Here you will find the help you need, you are not alone anymore.Cheers my friend carry on, I'm cheer for you :D
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Hi Evie :) I was once an Evie too, ironically my name is Evelyn but I digress...I went through a pretty similar situation. I didn't get stuck with awful friends but I did have boys tell me that I was ugly or I was too fat or whatever the case may be, point blank they destroyed my self esteem and I was in the same thinking as you are right now. I know that love is attractive and as human beings we all seek love and want to love and be loved in return. My advice is to slow down and enjoy your time as a 17 year old. Trust me, you'll be happier later in life and you will find a guy that appreciates your eccentric tastes in hobbies. I did once I got older. If you go to college you will find other people that share the same "weird" tastes that you have. Also, be proud that you're weird. Normality is overrated.You will blossom one day, Evie. Just be patient and enjoy your youth while you can.
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Hello there. (: Every one is beautiful in there own way. This "friends" don't know what they are talking about. I know as a girl, it sucks. Will at lest for me.. I feel like I have to be skinny and perfect. But thats me. Today woman are looked at as sex symbols. You are only 17, I am sure you will find someone that will love you for you. You need to hang out with people that will make you feel good about your self. Will.. Bye. (: