So my current relationship didnt start off on the right foot at all. My mama conned him into something that ended up getting him in trouble along with her. All his family claims I had something to do with it though I knew absolutely nothing about it. They all tell him that he needs to break up with me, he claims he is gonna stick by me but I feel he is getting distant. What should I do?? I don’t want to lose him.
Try understand it from his perspective, he is in a fight between both you and his family, a tough decision any couple has to go through. His family are trying to get you out. I'm sure he's just going through a hard time because he doesn't want to hurt you, so he may just be trying to work things out so that he can find away to make everything okay :)
you could always talk to him how you feel in a calm space so everything is relaxed
I agree with the other answer here, that maybe having a chat with him and both of you getting things off their chest might help. Also, this might not help but maybe talk to his family with him and explain you had nothing to do with it. Have you spoke with your mother and made sure she knows that unacceptable behavior? so that you can tell him it wont happen again?