I feel like im losing him

Try understand it from his perspective, he is in a fight between both you and his family, a tough decision any couple has to go through. His family are trying to get you out. I'm sure he's just going through a hard time because he doesn't want to hurt you, so he may just be trying to work things out so that he can find away to make everything okay :) you could always talk to him how you feel in a calm space so everything is relaxed

I agree with the other answer here, that maybe having a chat with him and both of you getting things off their chest might help. Also, this might not help but maybe talk to his family with him and explain you had nothing to do with it. Have you spoke with your mother and made sure she knows that unacceptable behavior? so that you can tell him it wont happen again?

Thank yall both. We have talked about our problems and are working on getting stronger again. :)