I feel like im going to be alone forever

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Im a 19 year old male. I dont know how attractive i am cause I dont talk to any girls but I think id fall under the cute/adorable category. Im tall and stuff like girls like i suppose. Im just really shy and dont have any girl friends. Ive kissed one girl and that was it and i didnt even do anything. One of my friends basically made it happen. I just dont wanna be a 40 year old virgin but i never know what to ask or say to a girl. Im just so sick of it and it’s making me depressed.

asked September 1, 2013

3 Answers

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...you're only nineteen. If you think you're going to be alone for the rest of your life, don't be crazy. Get into more social situations with girls, not as boyfriend-girlfriend, but just as friend-friend. Heck, once you become friends with a girl, and you see a girl you find attractive, feel confident towards that girl because you know you can be around them... and if you don't know what to say, ask your friend who happens to be a girl for advice.
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As long as you don't have crazy high standards, and meet new people as friends, you should definitely not end up alone forever. This is your life, there's no race to see who can find love first. Just be casual about it, and don't rush into anything you're not comfortable with.Good luck! :3
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I feel the same, being only 19 aswell, but the only thing you can do is stay positive and try and be chatty. Confidence is attractive to some girls, but to others it can be seen as cocky. Shyness is cute in my opinion, but it's all down to taste. Don't change yourself to suit someone elses standards, just be yourself and someone will come along and take you by surprise. :) Try setting up an account for online dating, not as daunting as face to face and a lot easier. x