I feel jealous when my best friend told me her crush.

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Basically, I’m bi, and my best friend has recently come out as a lesbian. She told me she has a crush on this girl, and I can’t help but feel a little jealous. I’m not sure if I like her like that… what do you think?

Category: asked August 11, 2013

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I think maybe you're just jealous because your bestfriend wants to spend time with somebody else. I know this feeling. If you're not sure if you like her or not, you should be patient with your feelings and just think about it. Are you sexually attracted to her? Do you want to date her? Do you want to kiss her? Those are some pretty important questions. If those are all nos then I think you're just jealous that you might lose your bestfriend to somebody else. If they're all yes then you have a crush my friend. If you still aren't sure, just think about it for a bit. In time you'll realize what you want. Also, open up to her about your feelings. I'm sure you're a big part if her life and she wants to know whats bugging you. Goodluck!
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Its possible that you do like her. Im not saying its anything like my situation but im in love with my best friend now im bi to :P and when she tells me about her crushes (not me) shes also bi, it makes me get jealous. Im kind of just jealous of lots of things though, but thats how it started for me to. She told me about her crush and an ex and it made me a little jealous. I just ignored it at first but eventually the feeling became way stronger and i told her, but she doesnt feel the same so i get jealous when she discusses her crushes and stuff. It actually really hurts when she talks about being with someone else. But if you feel like that you probably like her. But theres nothing wrong with that. and if you want i think you should tell her how you feel. that way she knows not to discuss certain things with you.
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You don't have to like her, even if it's possibility. You can be jealous because you want her to spent more and more time with you and you are afraid that she won't spend time with you as she did. But try to think about her being happy with that woman and that she needs to have fun too. You may think that you have a crush, and maybe you have, but you'll know if it's love or not when that jealous feeling will be there for more than a few months. I think we all been in situation when we thought we might have crush on our friends but that moment faded away. When you'll discover that you like her, it's not the end of the world. You'll find someone else that you will like and who knows... maybe you'll end up with your best friend. I am just saying, it doesn't have to be crush. It can be need for attention from your best friend.