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My girlfriend of 1 year broke up with me a week after out 1 year anniversary. She told me she stopped loving me. She said she lost feelings for me and there are no more sparks whenever she’s around me. I was devastated. I still am. I thought she was the one. We’ve had sex multiple times. We were eachother’s first. She won’t pick up my calls or even reply to my texts. I don’t know what to do. I love her so much.

Category: asked June 2, 2013

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Listen to me when I say I lost one much as you have. You are on a site almost filled with people such as you. We will listen, surely as you will love again. Let me say that you will endure and you will grow and prosper in this existence. No matter how it feels now, you will grow and adapt. Maybe she will come back, and maybe she won't. Either way, you will eventually shift, change and prosper. Everyday will get a little bit easier.


You got this bro.
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I have face the same case as yours for many times..and i know it is very hard time for you at the moment.. Likely when she doing that she is going to end your relationship with silent breakup..When this happened, there is nothing much you can do but continue your life and think positively as if someone go away from your life, maybe god wants to show you there are something that are more worth and nice for you to have in the future. Don't be surprised if she come back out of the blue later after few years have passed..and it's up to you what to do next...
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You're not alone in being alone. Been thru the same thing. At some point i thought hey, imma meet someone one day. I guess we gotta be patient, ey?
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I really don't know the full story here, but it seems pretty harsh considering the fact that you still love her and everything. But why don't you try moving on? At least try. Or maybe go somewhere away from home for a while to clear your mind off things? All I'm saying is, dont ever fall for 'this trap'. Don't make yourself believe that you're alone, because you're not! You're just too absorbed in this...You can mourn all you want, but eventually you're going to have to move on and get past it. Obviously because she's your first love, you're always going to have some sort of feelings for her, but they're going to get less and less everyday. Until one day you meet someone else, and hopefully you will.
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I'm so sorry your going through this. Surround yourself with support. This website will help alot :-). I'm here if you need to talk.
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hey, i signed up just for this post because my best friend is in this exact same situation, but the other end. and in fact her recent ex (who is in your position) is a close friend too so I think i might be able to shed some light on your situation (hopefully) :Dshe broke up with her bf of a year and she cut him off because she didn't want to resort back, not because he was a dick, or because she didn't love him anymore (cose she did), but because she had been worried that they would end on bad grounds and didn't want to ruin there friendship, and she believed the relationship had run its course. they still occasionally speak although most of our other friends keep saying that she shouldn't; but honestly, whether you are in a relationship for one year or one month, you will always find it hard to get over them - especially if you are still in love.What i suggest is trying as hard as you can to move on, I know its going to be hard, but as they say, if you love someone you've got to let them go. The boy in this situation between my friends (the one in your situation) still is heartbroken over her and whenever i mention her in a conversation he goes quiet- he always wears his heart on his sleeve unfortunately.i really hope you do find someone one day, and if you are still smitten by her i suggest talking to one of her closest friends about it (one that you trust), as i guarantee they can help :Dgood luck in the future mate ;D