hey, i signed up just for this post because my best friend is in this exact same situation, but the other end. and in fact her recent ex (who is in your position) is a close friend too so I think i might be able to shed some light on your situation (hopefully) :Dshe broke up with her bf of a year and she cut him off because she didn't want to resort back, not because he was a dick, or because she didn't love him anymore (cose she did), but because she had been worried that they would end on bad grounds and didn't want to ruin there friendship, and she believed the relationship had run its course. they still occasionally speak although most of our other friends keep saying that she shouldn't; but honestly, whether you are in a relationship for one year or one month, you will always find it hard to get over them - especially if you are still in love.What i suggest is trying as hard as you can to move on, I know its going to be hard, but as they say, if you love someone you've got to let them go. The boy in this situation between my friends (the one in your situation) still is heartbroken over her and whenever i mention her in a conversation he goes quiet- he always wears his heart on his sleeve unfortunately.i really hope you do find someone one day, and if you are still smitten by her i suggest talking to one of her closest friends about it (one that you trust), as i guarantee they can help :Dgood luck in the future mate ;D