I fall for guys that show the smallest hint of nicety towards me. I guess coming from my life it wouldn’t be hard to tell why, I don’t know what to do. So I would lime to know what I can do to maybe slow down the transition of not knowing somebody to liking them the first day I’ve known them. It happens with guys mainly but I do have a preference for females.
falling for ppl quickly is actually a very common thing so dnt beat yourself up about it. we as humans can not help but to cozy up to someone after they have shown us attention or mild interest. I myself find it difficult to let my brain in on all the day dreams my heart is always having but I force myself to think about what's going on. is he really in to me or is he just being polite? was that playful pat on my back or a sensual touch? but you knw there's no easy way to figure these things out, you just have to realize that not every person you crush on doesn't mean the feeling is mutual or that a relationship will develop. there's absolutely nothing wrong with crushing on a multitude of people. just use your brains too.~My inbox is open to all~
If you don't surround yourself with many guys, maybe you might want to talk to more on a casual friendship basis - so that communicating with a guy wouldn't feel like romance so much maybe. If you do have a lot of guy friends already, I'm not quite sure - maybe if you consciously think 'Am I going too fast?' and think where somebody else might be at their speed. Hope this helps