i don’t know what to do anymore

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so here we go. i haven’t really talked openly about my feelings with any one because i just don’t feel comfortable with sharing them in real life. so this is the situation. every boy i meet leaves me. it doesn’t have to be a boyfriend, more like a best friend. and now there’s this one guy that i can’t seem to get out of my mind, but gosh he’s so complicated. we used to talk about 3 months non stop through social media and he became really close to me. and then there’s our first fight. it wasn’t really that bad but we managed not to speak for 2 months and i honestly never have i ever felt so lonely before. i needed him because he was just so good to me,he got under my skin, i got so attached. i decided that i should i apologize,which i rarely do,i decided that i needed him close to me. but u know,he wasn’t that close anymore. we barely ever speak and i really miss him. a month passed and he unexpectedly told me he loved me, four times, i didn’t really believed him,he doesn’t seem like a guy who would commit to a girl,he flirts with some girls in front of me. i have feelings for him,i want to be with him so badly but i just can’t i feel like he’ll play me just like everyone else did… it passed 3 weeks since he told me he loved me and we don’t speak. the worst part is i see him every day in school and he ignores me, he used to make eye contact before he told me he loved me but now he really really seems depressed i even saw him sitting on a bench in a really bad mood,he looks so sad and he’s not with his friend but his friend glance at me all the time. i miss his hugs the most, and i have no idea what to do, but i’m not apologizing for the 3 time…please help

Category: Tags: asked January 26, 2015

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I'm sorry man. It sounds like you're in a really complex and tough situation. I understand it's hard for you to trust him to not abandon you, but it seems like you're really into him, and he's really into you.. You shouldn't let that slip, because what if in the future all you can think about is what could have happened between you two if you were together? You say he flirts with girls in front of you- it's possible that's his way of trying to make you jealous- him saying that he has other options. Which personally I think is a dick move on the guys part. Dudes still haven't figured out that it's an immature way to get a girl's attention. I just really think that if you believe you have a connection with this guy, it's not worth it to try and turn it into something more complicated than it needs to be. You don't have to apologize in order to talk to him, just explain your feelings, alright? If he gets it, then that's awesome and you two should figure things out. If he doesn't and acts like a total dick than let him go, because you deserve better. feel free to message me if you want to talk about it, and you can update me on your situation as it progresses if you'd like.